Stop Trying, Surrender

In our fast-paced and achievement-oriented society, the concept of surrender is often seen as a sign of weakness or defeat. We are constantly encouraged to strive for success, to push ourselves beyond our limits, and to never give up. However, there is great wisdom in the ancient philosophy of surrender, which teaches us that sometimes, the most powerful action we can take is to let go.

Surrender does not mean giving up or abandoning our goals and dreams. It is not a passive act of resignation but rather an active choice to release our attachment to outcomes and to trust in a higher power or the natural flow of life. It requires a deep sense of humility and a willingness to surrender our ego-driven desires and expectations.

When we constantly strive and try to control every aspect of our lives, we often find ourselves exhausted, stressed, and disconnected from our true selves. We become trapped in a cycle of endless striving, always chasing after the next achievement or milestone. But in the pursuit of success, we may lose sight of what truly matters – our well-being, our relationships, and our inner peace.

Surrendering is an invitation to let go of our need for control and to embrace the present moment. It is an invitation to trust in the wisdom of the universe and to have faith that everything is unfolding exactly as it should. When we surrender, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and opportunities that we may have never considered before. We allow ourselves to be guided by intuition and to flow with the natural rhythm of life.

Surrendering also requires us to face our fears and confront the aspects of ourselves that we may have been avoiding. It requires us to let go of our attachments to our past failures and disappointments and to embrace the lessons and growth that they have brought us. In surrendering, we find the strength to forgive ourselves and others and to release any resentments or grudges that may be holding us back.

With my move to New York a year ago, It was not mere chance but rather a fortuitous alignment of circumstances that led me to land on Lexington Avenue in the bustling city of Manhattan, New York. I nearly missed this opportunity, as I was hesitant to let go of the familiar comforts of New Orleans. However, it is often said that the divine intervenes in our lives to disrupt our complacency and compel us to relinquish our grip on the past. And so, surrendering to the uncertainty of the unknown, I embraced the myriad challenges that awaited me in the concrete jungle of Manhattan. It was amidst these trials and tribulations that I discovered my true purpose and calling. My life continues to unfold as my surrender requires daily practice and focus with intention. This keeps me centered with awareness and openness to receive what is next in my life.

In my journey through life, embracing change, renewal, and openness to what lies ahead has not always come naturally. There were times when I clung stubbornly to the familiar, fearing the unknown and desperately trying to manipulate my surroundings. However, I soon discovered that my efforts to maintain control only exacerbated the situation. In an attempt to conceal my errors, I would inadvertently make more mistakes, digging myself into a deeper hole. This misguided approach extended beyond personal blunders, infiltrating my relationships and financial choices, among other areas.

By surrendering, we create space for miracles and unexpected blessings to enter our lives. When we let go of our need for control, we allow the universe to work its magic in ways that we could never have imagined. We open ourselves up to receive guidance and support from sources beyond our own limited understanding.

Our society may value relentless striving and the never-ending pursuit of success; there is great wisdom in the philosophy of surrender. Surrendering is not a sign of weakness but rather a courageous act of trust and humility. It invites us to let go of our need for control and to embrace the present moment. By surrendering, we open ourselves up to new possibilities, growth, and unexpected blessings. So, let us stop trying and surrender, for in surrendering, we may find the true peace and fulfillment that we have been seeking all along.

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